As a new mom of a very active toddler i have a new found respect and admiration for all mothers who have come before me. I use to be really judgemental and like. Hello! Your child isnt perfectly groomed, how can you let your house get SOOOOOOO messy, have a little pride, or GROSS! Your car is disgusting....cheerios everywhere and PU! It smells like a little kid has taken over. What the heck is the matter with you??
Yeah well not so much on the clean, tidy, perfectly groomed or well mannered side for us. Hence the name: BELLA MONSTER!!! We try, but fail miserably and i've reached an entirely new threshold of not caring. I feel like a deadbeat mom a lot but really...there is only so much you can do. Keeping up appearances is exhausting. I can totally see how people can be stay at home moms and have nannies also. lol.
I'm sure you've seen these pix, but i think they are hilarious.....

Dan wishes he could do this

I really want to do this to bella some days

Ok so my roomie in college did this to her friend with charcoal

So bella actually did this with my in-law's cat's food.

can you say grounded for life?

Are boys pre-programmed for this?

Ok is that perfect timing or what??

This is so something my brothers use to do!

I cant wait to have boys!




Also, I am going to sign up as a Stampin' Up! demonstrator...i am so excited! I LOVE their stuff...their colors and products are AWESOME and SO much cheaper than buying stuff in the store. Plus, I scrapbook so much that its so worth it to just sign up and get a discount. I am really excited about having workshops and stuff, they are a blast and i really love any excuse to get together with people!


One of my best friends, husbands just got back from a year of service in Iraq. We are all so happy he is home and safe! Ok so we totally didnt know him except from the endless stories from Kirsten lol but he is awesome! He totally loves bella and they are pretty much inseperable right now. He has some down time before he starts working for the police academy and occasionally when I work in the office he watches Bella for us. He is awesome...its also great that he is home cuz he and Dan hang out whenever we have a girls night...so nice!